Introduction:
The purpose of this blogpost is to highlight my strength and weaknesses in becoming a more assertive person. The book that I am following is 5 Essential people skills by Dale carnegie foundation.
so without further a do I will write what my todays reflection are
1. The first step towards becoming a more assertive person is to RECOGNIZE
- What kind of a person are you right now
- Where exactly changes are needed
- beleive that you have the right to make those changes
Ask yourself these questions , are you a person who is often taken advantage of
I think many times the conversation ends with me accepting something in reaction to the assertion I have made.
Write down a situation where you have actually said "NO"
Instances where you have been very outspoken and did it cross the line by becoming an agressive behavior
Seldon happens with my subordinates that when I dont get what I am expecting. Then it turns into that I
- Throw a tantrum
- show that I am upset and release my frustration
